Ran into a cute guy at the last weekend barbeque party and want to ask him out but afraid to do so? Or are you attracted towards that latest handsome addition in your salsa class and deep inside you know he is the one for you but you are not sure how to make a first move? Well asking an attractive guy out for a long term relationship may not be the simplest thing to do but if you want a guy to become truly yours then pull up your socks and take help of these simple steps to bag that handsome hunk:

Step 1: Things to Consider Before You Propose

Though apparently he may seem to be Mr. Right but it is always better to consider all the pros and cons before you actually propose. Carefully consider that will you like to be with a guy that doesn’t seem to appreciate you much as a girlfriend and whose likes and dislikes are at complete tangent to what you love? Are your feelings one sided or are they being equally reciprocated? You give a lot of yourself when in a relationship and therefore give proper time to yourself before you go ahead and propose a guy to become your boyfriend.

Step 2: Romantic Ways to Propose Your Boyfriend

Once you have decided to ask a guy to become your boyfriend the next step involves selecting the correct venue and right words to propose the guy. You should not hesitate when expressing your feelings and should communicate how special he makes you feel and why you enjoy his company. There are numerous creative as well as cheeky ways to ask the guy to become your boyfriend with some classic examples being:

• If the guy in your life is adventurous and a sports freak then invite him for a romantic dinner to your apartment and turn your dining area into treasure hunt ground with one clue leading to another and finally the prize being a written confirmation of your deepest feelings asking him to be your boyfriend.

• If the guy in your life loves good food then what better way to convey your feeling then sending him his favorite dessert like mango mousse or strawberry soufflé with an attached note of asking him to become yours. You can also convey the message by sending a cake with the words “Will you be my boyfriend” written using red color icing.

Step 3: Reactions to Your Proposal

You would surely be the happiest lady in the whole world if he accepts your proposal. You can celebrate with a hug and a kiss but yes don’t be too pushy. If the guy is not able to accept your proposal immediately, give him some breathing space rather than throwing a big tantrum. Some guys take more time than others to provide an answer or to commit, be patient and don’t expect an immediate response.

So if you are dating a Mr. Slowpoke but you know he is the right guy go ahead and ask him to be your boyfriend as the first step from your side may pave the right path for a perfect and healthy relationship.