For men, there is a big difference in loving you and being committed to you. You might be fantasying about saying those sacred vows, while your guy might be cribbing about compatibility issues. Men work out on the formula, try and try until they succeed! And success for them is to date a woman who is an eye candy for all. Not all women are born with such an inherent charm but fortunately can any time turn into a diva who leaves men’s heart pumping. Most women, who are now into a successful relationship, recommend "The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave" by Bob Grant for its easy tactics on how to attract men and keep him hooked to you for a lifetime.

Here are some of the issues, which make men think a hundred times before committing, are as follows:

1. Absence of biological clock: Well, as human biology reveals, men are not coupled with an emotional biological clock. Like women, who, at a particular age, start feeling about having their own family and kids, men don't face this need or compulsion.

2. Self worth: Unlike women who feel that the essence of their life begins with marriage and commitment, men seriously need to think regarding this matter, Most of the guys feel that they need to prove their mettle to their family and society, before they can accept gearing up for marriage. For them, the transition of love into commitment is very thought provoking and that’s where the fear of commitment strikes in.

3. Late maturity: If science is believed again, women mature earlier than men. Even in the case of brain development, they linger behind girls and women during the adolescence age. Thus, you might be more mature and serious when you demand commitment, while your man might not be. It’s quite natural for him to be afraid of commitment.

4. Relationship phobic: Men have to really struggle very hard to be in parallel with their children, in terms of bonding and understanding. Unlike women, they are not able to gel so easily, both bio-chemically, emotionally and intellectually with their kids. With so many hassles to face, the commitment phobia seems more menacing.

5. Reason for happiness: The fear of commitment also becomes irresistible for men because they know that once they are into any relationship, women are going to consider them solely responsible for their happiness and sadness. Somewhere deep down, men are not ready to handle this responsibility.

6. Cannot satisfy:  Some men, through their fathers and friends, have somehow learnt that women will never ever acknowledge those small intimate moments. They fear of commitment, as this word means a lot to women, which most of the times, men are not able to endow with.

7. Casanova types: Those men, who have had history of bed jumping, might feel it quite impossible to be hooked with just one woman for the rest of their lives. Most of them, keep looking for something or the other in their women, which mostly is impossible to get in one single partner.

In a nutshell, men are much more into exploring the sexual fantasies rather than promise commitment. No matter how much they love you, deep down, every man feels a bit afraid with this word. Thus, if you are really serious about your relationship with your man, you need to understand his psychology so that longevity is added to your romance.