If you are dating a married man, it is more likely that your friends have advised you to put your affair with a married man to an end. The reason is justifiable. A woman loving a married man is more likely to suffer from emotional stress. For one, it is difficult to have an affair with somebody who has had marital vows with another. Two, women having an affair with married men are also more likely to just being used. Statistics have even showed that there are very few men who leave their family for another woman.

Lest if you have already considered everything and still conclude that you love that man and can barely live without him, then it’s the time to act. More often than not, it happens that your man keeps swinging between his family life and you and unable to take a concrete decision. If you are determined and really want to attract this man towards you no matter what, Bob Grant’s "The Woman Men Adore...and Never Want to Leave" is a million dollar deal for you.

Here are some things that you need to do if you are in love with a married man:

Consider the pros and cons of the relationship. It is important that you do some evaluation to assess the benefits and disadvantages of the relationship. You might be hoping that your man will leave his family for you so you two can be together happily but what about the other people who will be hurt because of your affair with a married man? Think about the family and children who will be hurt if they will be taken for granted just because of you. It would be better to make the sacrifice yourself than seeing another family being broken because of an immoral affair with a married man.

Assess if the man you are going with really loves you. You might be thinking that you want to pursue the relationship because you and your man are in love with each other but if your man truly loves you, will he not think the best for you? Your man knows the consequences of the relationship. He knows that your family and friends will detest you. He even knows that you can be expelled from your job on moral grounds of having an affair with a married man. A man who truly loves you will not bear the thought of you going through all these sacrifices. Assess whether the man you are going with is pursuing the relationship because he loves you or he just wants to take advantage of you.

Think about your future. Do not waste away a life for a man who does not care what will happen to you as a result of having an unacceptable relationship with him. Remember not to limit yourself on one married man because there will be plenty of opportunities for you to meet more eligible guys. You deserve a guy who can truly and morally love you.

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Dating a married guy

I have personally been in a relationship with a married man and I've gone through the same phases like most of you writing here do now. And because he left his wife and child for me and not by coincidence, but because I worked towards this goal, I want to share my story with you, all the women dating a married guy - you can read it here http://thelovepr.com/books.html



Good luck :)

#2 - The Love PR - 09/13/2011 - 09:40

Please tell me- are we living the 21st century? What business is it of anyone's who you are having an affair with? How can you be fired from your job for having an extra marital affair? People - get over yourselves!

#1 - Amelia - Johannesburg - 06/04/2011 - 18:19

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