Women Can Break The Ice And Take The Lead In Asking A Shy Guy Out
How to Get A Shy Guy To Ask You Out? It is a million dollar question lingering in any woman’s mind. It is indeed a different ball game altogether that demands patience and perseverance. Do bear in mind that shy guys are scared to socialize due to low self confidence. They are typically men of few words so do not expect overnight results or passionate conversations on day one itself.
In case you are wracking your nerves on how to get a shy guy to ask you out, remember that a casual conversation and slow approach is all that is needed to break the ice. Do not expect a ready response as these introverted men could be tongue tied in expressing their emotions. Do not be pushy and keep the channels of conversation open to gather his confidence. It is sensible to touch upon interesting topics that are not too personal. Try to find out about his interests and if he is a sports buff, set the ball rolling by talking about the hottest matches in the town to build up a conversation. You would be surprised to note that in no time he would start expressing his ideas openly and confidently as never before.
Alternatively, you can expect unexpectedly fast response with the help Bob Grant’s “The Woman Men Adore... And Never Want To Leave”. In no time you will find the guy kneeing down to propose you no matter how shy he is.
When you feel that a bond of friendship is already set in place you can tread cautiously into his well guarded personal domain to solve the puzzle of how to get a shy guy to ask you out? Why don’t you discuss about his family his hobbies and holiday plans to take the conversation into a personal level? This would help you to get the pulse of his feelings; take a cue from his behavior and drop hints to take your conversation into a much more intimate level. Assure him that he is the Mr. Right in your life that you have been looking out for years together. Hold his hands gently and if his reaction is positive, make intimate eye contact or exchange sweet nothings. Make sure not to cross the thin border line set by these introverted men by making exaggerated movements like bear hugs and kisses as yet!
Now you can try asking him out and make sure to keep it a private and one-on-one affair. Keep your friends and family away from this meeting as the guy might feel uncomfortable and tensed up in the presence of strangers and the good will you built up would break away in no time. Go for a simple date if he agrees. Avoid crowded places, which he might not like; suggest a movie or a reclusive park at the down town that is far from the hustle and bustle of the city.
A drive-through dinner is a great bet to be together and to share your thoughts over some exotic dine and wine options. Whatever be your choice, make sure to take the guy’s opinion as men are always egoistic and pampering his ego would make half your job done. Make him confident and comfortable where he will opt to open up his mind. The bottom line is that the right approach plays an important role in making or breaking your love life. Cast away all your apprehensions to enjoy a blissful love life.
I started liking this guy and one of my friends told him that I like him and she said that he likes me back and wants to ask me out. well it's been weeks and he still hasn't asked me but my friends say he doesn't want to ask me out cause he's shy and he's never had a gf. So I don't know if I should ask him out or ask him if he's really shy about it? PLEASE HELP! :)
#27 - Unknown - 10/07/2012 - 23:22
I love him, I (subcontiously?) love him not?
So we've been, like, BEST friends for a very long time. Well, not that long. A little over a year. ALL of my friends tell me he likes me . I like him too. My friends have told him that.
I'VE told him that. But it was by text. He said nothing about it to me.
One day, At the park, in the forest, on a school field trip (i'm thirteen), He said,
"Everybody says we should date. We could date, like, until the school year is over, and then we could break up." it was near the end of the school year.
I love him, but for some reason I just, like, froze up and said no. afterwards i was like i am so stupid!
Now today my friend is gonna talk him into asking me out, because she "KNOWS" he is "totally in love with" me.
If he doesm't ask me out by tomorrow, i'll say, "if you asked me out, i wouldnt say no."
#26 - HaileyLovesDillon - 08/21/2012 - 19:09
I'M BOY CRAZY
I need help because i like this guy and he is soo super nice and shy and i think he likes me too i dont ever talk to him because i'm scared to say something wrong!!! please help me!!
#25 - kaitlynn marie kiesel - 06/01/2012 - 22:46
So there is this boy, I have History and lunch with him. I like him a lot, and I catch him looking at me all the time. He is more of the shy nerdy kid but he is really funny, sweet, and athletic. My friend told him that I like him but she said that he just smiled and walked away. I need some advice on how to talk to him, and to ask him out. (:
#24 - Kelsie - 03/27/2012 - 10:02
I'm so confused
There's this guy I like but I'm not sure if he likes me back. We have 2 classes together but he only sits by me in one. In the first one he sometimes looks at me usually and in the second one we are usually always talking. He always tries to make me laugh and teases me A LOT. He only does this to me, not anyone else. But his ex, still likes him and she always butts in on our conversations or tries to impress him. I'm nervous about if he still likes her. I don't know what to do. We always flirt but everyone says he likes me but I say whatever. My friend told him I like him, he said I know. She asked him if he liked me and he suddenly changed the subject.. Is that good? HELP PLEASE. I really like him. :)
#23 - Allison - 03/10/2012 - 19:41
HELP NEEDED DOES HE LIKE ME
I really like this guy who sits next to me in social studies class and he is always stareing at me. His body poster is right feet pointed twards me and his shoulders too. But he is really shy.... He tries to make me laugh but never talks to me. Last yr though on the bus we were talking abbout ppl who were dateing and he asked me who i was dateing!!!!!!! Of course i said politly that im single and guess what he said!! "really? That surprises me. Wait did i really say that outloud?'' this yr he got even shyer to me but im friend with his friends and i would ask him out but im way too shy!!!!! Can anyone say if he likes me or how i should hint to get him to ask me out
#22 - Shygurlwholikesyoududeduh - 03/03/2012 - 13:48
there's this guy I really like, and I think he likes me too... The real problem is, its still hard for him getting over his ex.... They seemed like a great couple, but had tons of fights. Everyone is saying to him that we should date, and he said maybe :/ We text and talk on the phone together, but i don't know if he's ready to date again. I really want him to ask me out but I think he's a bit scared... help...
#21 - Kayla - 02/23/2012 - 19:04
In need of some help
Alright maybe he's just not that into me? What do you think? I'm a junior and he's a sophomore, kinda weird for me. I like older guys buuuuut... He's really cute and I can see us hittin it off together. But he's really shy and doesn't really ever text me first. When we do text it's fun and nothing boring and yet nothing flirty. Help me try to move things along faster? I have no clue if he likes me but I sure like him:( what do you think?
#20 - Lexii - 02/03/2012 - 20:29
OH THIS SHY GUY IS MAKEING ME GO CRAZY FOR HIM!!!
SO THIER THIS GUY I REALLY REALLY LOVE....IVE BEEN LOVEING HIS FOR 6 YRS..AND WE ARE JUST FRIENDS..I TLAK TO HIM LIKE A CHILLN FRIEND & HE ALSO KNOW THAT I LIKE HIM..BUT THE THING IS HE IS A VERY SHY!! GUY AND I AM SHY TOO!!!! AND WELL ITS HARD TO FLIRT WHEN I DONT KOW HOW TO!!..I REALLY NEEED SOME HELP!!
#19 - mony! - 01/22/2012 - 23:46
HELP! THIS IS URGENT! HELP!
HELP there is this guy that i find cute we both love each other but we are both shy to ask each other out and there is another guy always around us that is keeping stopping us saying oh hes not aloud to have a girlfriend because hes too young when number 1 he isnt too young and 2 hes had a girlfriend before and dumped her because he loved me more which is soooo sweet any way HELP ME how can i get him to ask me out???????
#18 - me me - 12/11/2011 - 05:26
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