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Finding someone to spend the rest of your life with or go out with can be a difficult thing to do. Often, finding someone that you don’t really know and deciding to forma relationship with them is really not the best thing to do. It is for this reason that sometimes you may find yourself falling for one of your friends, if he is good looking of course, and you may be worried about whether or not this is a good thing or not. Well, we have written a few pointers for going from being friends with a guy, to being lovers.
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How to do it: if you want to establish a more loving relationship with one of your friends, then the first thing you will need to find out is whether or not they feel the same way about you. The best and easiest way to do this is to simply ask them. If you want to know whether they would consider going out with you instead of just being friends then the quickest way is definitely too just ask them straight. This can however be awkward, especially if the person says no, but if you are really good friends then this shouldn’t affect things too much and you will easily be able to go back to just being friends. -
Make sure it is what you really want: before you make a move on your friend or decide to tell them how you feel, you should consider whether or not this is really what you want. Sometimes, being good friends with someone you can often get your feelings confused and you may think that you want to forma relationship with them when really you would be better off being good friends. Think about if this is what you really want. Think about whether you really find them attractive and whether you find them sexually attractive even. If after thinking about this you realise that you don’t, and then you will probably be better off just being friends.
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