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Every woman knows that the key to a romantic relationship with a guy is to establish a good friendly relationship with him first. Many long term relationships have succeeded because the relationship has been founded on friendship. Friendship is also a common key among girls to get the man that they wanted. Here are some tips on how to be close friends with the guy you like:
Make the first move to initiate your first conversation. If you are interested with a guy and he doesn’t even know you, it is probably best that you take the first move to initiate your first conversation. The conversation is primarily a way for you to introduce yourself to the man. For example, if the guy you like is your neighbor, you can start saying hello to him and ask him where he used to live. If he is a co worker, say hello to him and give him brief introduction of how it is to work in the company. If the conversation has started out well, introduce yourself.
Do something to improve your friendship. If you have successfully introduced yourself to the guy, it is more likely that your relationship will be in the “hi- hello” stage. You are still in the preliminary stage of your friendship and unless you do something to improve the relationship, your friendship will remain that way. It is therefore important that you do something to improve your relationship by researching on the person’s likes and dislikes. This knowledge will allow you to make good conversations with him by talking about the things that he likes. It is also helpful if you search for things that both of you like. For example, if you are interested in music and you noticed him always carrying his ipod, involve him in a talk about music. If both of you share the same interests, it is likely that you will develop a deeper relationship.
Make your time together special. If you already spend a lot of time talking about the things that both of you like, you can take another step to be close friends with the guy you like by making your time together special. If you used to talk in your house, make your next talk more special by preparing a dinner for him. You can also suggest to him other special activities that you can do together such as watching movies together. When you make your time together as special, you are more likely to develop close friendship with the guy that you like.
If you are interested with a guy and want to be close friends with him, make the first move to initiate your first conversation and introduce yourself. If you have successfully introduced yourself to the guy, it is important that you do something to improve your friendship. Lastly, make your time together special because special times will foster closer and deeper relationship with the guy that you like.
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