There are many ways to say to your boyfriend “I love you and I am here for you” but there is a difference between saying it and showing that you truly love the person. It is through supporting him when he is in pain and hurt that lets him know that you are there

To support your boyfriend one must look for ways to make him see that you are sincere:

1. When you love a person you must show that you are there for them whatever is happening in their lives, may it be family problems, at work or something else arises. They also need our help even if they look strong all the times. Men usually try to hide away their problems and stress and seldom speak it out openly. You need to make him feel enough comfortable to let him pour his heart out. Have the instinct to sense that they have something in mind.

2. Be ready to listen to their heartaches when they talk to you about their frustrations or problems. They need to feel that you care but do not let them feel that you are trying to switch on a topic to avoid their confessions to you. The body language means a lot to some guys, be wary that they will be secretive again as they usually are. To pay attention to them there might be a room for more lessons to be learned about him and how he feels.

3. Show that you love them by little things such as hugs, smiles, tapping on shoulders, listening attentively to what they tell you. Supporting them will be a greatest factor to say you have affection for them and they will just love it. A weak spot in a man would be on affections, if they are truly in love they will do the most extraordinary feats that they don’t typically do when they are not in love, such as to sacrifice their allowances just to buy you roses. You can also learn some great secrets of making your man happy with the help of “The Woman Men Adore… And Never Want To Leave”

4. Respect your boyfriend; this is one way to give them a sense of self esteem to become more matured in doing their ways. Let them return back the favor to you so you will know that they really love you and you mean something for them.

5. Love them; one thing to show that you support him is to love him in spite of his imperfections. This is the only thing that will make him feel successful and forget his imperfections

6. Encourage them to talk as often. Communications should not be an obstacle between the two of you. Man are oftentimes shy whether you may not notice that at all with them but there is some discouragement that houses in them.Don’t talk when he does not want to. This will test that you understand him and will lead him to love you more for it.

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thank you very much for this 'n God bless..! ^^

#1 - anonymous - 08/25/2011 - 11:30

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