Be Sexually Dominant (Get Sex When You Want It)
Let's face it, sex is really amazing. At the expense of sounding like a nymphomaniac, there are really only a few things that are better. The chance of being able to have ample sex with someone that you hold dear is very important to people. On top of it feeling great, there is the fact that it really makes couples get a lot closer. It's also one of the most therapeutic (and calorie burning!) activities that a person can partake in. With all of that said, it's pretty frustrating when a woman can't get her man in the mood. Sadly, there are many women who are sitting around and waiting for the moment their men carry them into the bedroom, wishing to be ravaged. Well, there are a few men that are just not into the idea, for a myriad of reasons.
Dress for the Part
The lack of sex in a relationship can do some pretty bad things for their self-esteem. Is it that he isn't sexually attracted anymore? Although there are certainly some cases where the passion is gone, this is definitely not the case. He could just be tired, and you can take it as your job to shock some life back into your man. When it comes to arousing the man, they are very visual creatures. For the woman, this means they should take a trip to the store. Really, there's nothing that a man will find sexier than some skimpy, even trashy, lingerie.
Yes, most men are into the trashy lingerie idea. If a woman wears it, it's pretty much like men's catnip. He will probably be trying to claw it off of you the moment that he sees it, and even if it's been a while, there will be something in his brain telling him to do so.
Talk the Talk, Walk the Walk
Guys love when their women talk dirty. In fact, a lot of men try pretty hard to make their women more vocal in bed, although it can start before you two are even there. When you are feeling in the mood, just lean over and tell him all of the dirty things that you want to do to them. It will merit a response, nine times out of ten. There is always the chance that you are dealing with a difficult male, the one out of ten that's especially unresponsive. Well, in that case, you could always start acting on it.
A woman who initiates sex is a very desirable woman, the type that men would kill over. This may be the problem with the woman who may be going through his libido issues, she is just waiting on him to act on it. If you want it, there's really no harm in being proactive. In fact, it's what most men want. If you were to poll one hundred men, they would all state they are not opposed to the woman taking charge.