Make A Man Fall Madly

He's the man of your dreams, or the man of the moment. You want him, to put it plainly, and you don't have him. Yet, you want to encourage him to chase you, to fall madly in love with you, make him want to want you. Things aren't going as quickly or as intensely as you'd like, though. He's still at a distance, not fully in the mad, mental world of love. He just needs to be pushed a little, before he's crazy for you. It's not that hard. There are several huge mistakes women make.

Below is the basic know how of getting close to your dream man. But if you want to take your relationship to the next level and make your man go mad about you, there is no better deal than “The Woman Men Adore… And Never Want To Leave”

What do you need to do to make him fall for you?

• Confidence is the key. If you don't like yourself, why should he? Self love appears very attractive to men. Knowing who you are, what you're about and liking every inch of it. That's not to say over-confidence is sexy. It's not. You just need to know your worth to make him fall in love. You have to be physically, mentally and emotionally confident.

• Personality is another highly important thing. Going out with him and taking up the majority of conversation with whining about people at work, or making nasty comments about people isn't going to make him chase you, it's going to make him turn tail fast. Make sure you show the positives: be nice, kind, friendly and intelligent. Don't morph your personality to fit his. Be yourself.

• Focus on him when you're together. Show interest in him, listen to what he really has to say. Engage in a conversation, not a monologue. He needs to be appreciated and admired just as much as you do, don't forget.

• Be unavailable when you're apart. He should have to work for spending time with you. Being available every day and he gets bored. He wants to feel he's gaining someone of value, not someone without a life or someone needy, who just wants someone to take care of them.

Ways you WON'T steal his heart:

• Speaking about taboo topics. A few obvious ones are ex-boyfriends; you ask him how he feels about the future, children or marriage. Anything to do that deals with how much money he has. Any one of these could have him falling out of his chair, instead of falling in love with you.
  

• Sleeping with him early on. There's no emotional tie like there is when you get to know each other, which means he has no obligation or guilt to stop seeing you. Use a little self-control and get to know him well- his likes, dislikes, who he is. He won't chase you after one or two nights.

• Expecting him to be a mind-reader, and being disappointed or angry when he doesn't understand. It makes men crazy, but not in the good way. Say what you mean and mean what you say, and he'll respect you for it.

Stealing a man's heart really is an art form, but if you show some restraint and play your cards right, he'll be falling madly in love with you before you know it.