As teenagers our hormones are surging and thoughts are running wild. At this stage of our life we are keen to experiment various exciting things in life, sex being one of them. So if you think you have found the right match and had been going steady with him for a couple of months and want to proceed ahead from mere kisses but confused as to whether is it the right time to have sex then here are some things to consider before you consider giving up your virginity:

• It is important to realize that having sex changes the equation between two people as this is one of the most intimate things two people share. Therefore before going for physical intimacy you should ask yourself “do I see myself spending a lifetime together with this guy or do I really wish to make him know me in the most intimate way”. Answer to these questions will surely show you the light and answer whether you are ready to have sex.

• There can be life changing consequences as a result of unprotected sex. You may conceive and therefore while loosing your virginity to a guy ask yourself whether you can imagine a lifelong relationship with each other for the sake of child that you might procreate. Also you can also catch many sexually transmitted diseases during unprotected sex. Research has proved that even using condoms doesn’t always protect your from pregnancy and STDs and also having sex with a guy that you hardly know can have drastic psychological effects. Therefore keep all these things in mind which will help you in deciding whether you are ready to have sex.

• For some guys having sex is like carrying the prized trophy and sharing their success story with their friends later on during drinks. Some guys may only be after sex and would date you so that you give in to his demands. He would never call you back once he has got what he has wanted. Therefore before you have sex it is important to understand the true nature of the guy whom you are dating which will also make it easier for you to understand if you are ready to have sex.

• Also before you give in to peer pressure just remember that your virginity could be the most special gift to your future hubby with whom you would wish to spend your entire life together. This could surely be the most perfect gift you can give to your partner on your wedding night. Imagine no history, no secrets and no disease will give you both a fresh start in the most romantic and intimate settings which will surely make your relationship with your spouse more special.

It is important to remember that when to have sex is a personal decision which has to be in joint agreement between both the partners. Gain complete understanding about the risks that are associated with unprotected sex and take adequate precautions before you take the final plunge.