He Wants You To Say Something Sexy

There's a point in all relationships where you feel the urge to spice things up, drive him wild with desire the same way it was in the beginning. A simple way to do this is through words. They can be sweet, sensual or sexy. You can say them in a text or you can whisper nice, naughty things during sex. Men love to be turned on by sexy sound-bytes, talking dirty or just being appreciated. Words can work wonders in and out of the bedroom. The best time to start speaking up is roughly after a few months. You might also need an add-on to make him crave for you madly and shower all his love on you with the help of ”The Woman Men Adore… And Never Want To Leave”. Here are a few ideas to inspire you:

Say something in a text:

• Pick up lines: these can be silly or sexy (How do you like your eggs in the morning?) (What winks and screws like a tiger?) (That suit would look better on my floor.)

• Poetry or quotes: you can text a poem in parts throughout the day, or send him quotes that remind you of him, if you're in a sweet mood.

• Send him a list of your favorite things about him. Men like compliments, too. And they can be sweet or naughty, from “You're the kindest man I've ever met,” to “I can't wait to rip off your clothes, you beast.”

• As foreplay for that evening: start sending him texts during the day. Begin normally and slowly turn up the heat. It'll drive him wild with anticipation.

Say something naughty during sex:

• Practice makes you perfect, and doing dirty talk makes a lot of women balk. Find a few phrases you feel comfortable saying, and when you're alone, say them out loud. The phrases don't have to be graphic, again, a good compliment goes a long way and can still turn him on beyond belief. “You're amazing,” is a stereotype for a reason.

• When you feel ready, you can either: start saying it in a text, or when you're in the bedroom suggest it. You could bring it up by asking him his fantasies, or by telling him yours. Again, the slow build is sexier. You can also try describing exactly what he's doing or what you'd like to do, early on. Or describe his body while touching it lightly as you go, building up to a naught crescendo.

Keep in mind, it might not turn him on. It might not be his thing, and could make him uncomfortable. Always test the waters and see if he reacts. Is he shuffling, or texting back “Um...Ok?” Or grinning like a Cheshire cat? You'll need to set guidelines for both of you. Some men don't like vulgar terms and for others it drives them wild. Try to be as normal and natural as possible. If your man comes home one day to a potty-mouthed wild woman he might get upset. Saying sexy things to your man might, however, really add some spice to your love life.