He Wants You To Say Something Sexy

There's a point in all relationships where you feel the urge to spice things up, drive him wild with desire the same way it was in the beginning. A simple way to do this is through words. They can be sweet, sensual or sexy. You can say them in a text or you can whisper nice, naughty things during sex. Men love to be turned on by sexy sound-bytes, talking dirty or just being appreciated. Words can work wonders in and out of the bedroom. The best time to start speaking up is roughly after a few months. You might also need an add-on to make him crave for you madly and shower all his love on you with the help of ”The Woman Men Adore… And Never Want To Leave”. Here are a few ideas to inspire you:

Say something in a text:

• Pick up lines: these can be silly or sexy (How do you like your eggs in the morning?) (What winks and screws like a tiger?) (That suit would look better on my floor.)

• Poetry or quotes: you can text a poem in parts throughout the day, or send him quotes that remind you of him, if you're in a sweet mood.

• Send him a list of your favorite things about him. Men like compliments, too. And they can be sweet or naughty, from “You're the kindest man I've ever met,” to “I can't wait to rip off your clothes, you beast.”

• As foreplay for that evening: start sending him texts during the day. Begin normally and slowly turn up the heat. It'll drive him wild with anticipation.

Say something naughty during sex:

• Practice makes you perfect, and doing dirty talk makes a lot of women balk. Find a few phrases you feel comfortable saying, and when you're alone, say them out loud. The phrases don't have to be graphic, again, a good compliment goes a long way and can still turn him on beyond belief. “You're amazing,” is a stereotype for a reason.

• When you feel ready, you can either: start saying it in a text, or when you're in the bedroom suggest it. You could bring it up by asking him his fantasies, or by telling him yours. Again, the slow build is sexier. You can also try describing exactly what he's doing or what you'd like to do, early on. Or describe his body while touching it lightly as you go, building up to a naught crescendo.

Keep in mind, it might not turn him on. It might not be his thing, and could make him uncomfortable. Always test the waters and see if he reacts. Is he shuffling, or texting back “Um...Ok?” Or grinning like a Cheshire cat? You'll need to set guidelines for both of you. Some men don't like vulgar terms and for others it drives them wild. Try to be as normal and natural as possible. If your man comes home one day to a potty-mouthed wild woman he might get upset. Saying sexy things to your man might, however, really add some spice to your love life.

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Comments (21)

is he the one

mi boyfrnd is 25 nd m 21.we luv each ada so much.he makes me hapi cook 4 me nd he wants to put a smile on mi face everyday.hs trying so much to make me happy but sometimes things dont add up.his to sexy nd handsum when we together people always look at us.bt hs ready to make that step in our lives.i feel his trying to hard....:-:-

#21 - rose - 10/16/2012 - 04:27

me and my boyfriend/husband have been dating for almost 6months and we love each other so much he lives far away from me oposite sides of the states he and me are ingaged he will propose when he gets here ... how do i know for sure he is the one

#20 - Ashley - 09/22/2012 - 12:12

best of both worlds

ive got many open holes on my body and oh man ma boyfriend fills em good with all sorts of stuff like change and cheese-wiz, rubbing alcahol, television remotes, trafic cones, bags of garbage, any thing call me (269) 357-3859

#19 - HORNY ARSE HOLE - 08/28/2012 - 02:02

me and baby daddy

i love my boyfriend i oways in love with him he text me and he call me sometime i call him and we talk , my boy friend teell me to talk like say some thin i say i have not thin to say then latter on i say some thin then he coby of me then se say somethin about me and him thnat aboujt sex ?

#18 - Lucyann - 06/13/2012 - 18:01

bf and i issues

me and my bf love eachother alot so we started going out alone walking and to the movies.. well over here in lebanon it is very small and we could get caught easily ... so it was a day after highschool at like 2 we went walking around then my grandpa passed by in the car but didnt notice me.. then my mom passed by and saw me and my bf ... so she stopped the car and made me go in in frustration while my bf tried acting like a friend to me.. but it didnt work out i lost all my trust from my mother brothers and even my father rip... but this cant get me over him. i barely see him , i cant even see him at school.. we only talk to eachother through text messaging and msn... before we used to be so close .. but now from just this move i lost all my mothers trust and now she thinks im a slut... but still this cant get me over him.. and i miss him like hell!

#17 - rachal - 05/08/2012 - 11:49

#16 - kj - 05/03/2012 - 12:09

*taylor

I believe that you should talk to him about it and tell him what you saw. If he acts weird ask why he has done it and from there on it will go off into staying together or not but my personal opinion you guys shouldn't because cheating is wrong and it shows that he doesn't love you

#15 - Shellbi - 03/18/2012 - 13:26

bofriend/ family issues

so me and my boyfriend are in college we started going out and then a teacher saw us making out , and that teacher was close to my mom so told my mom , im not allowed to date at all anyone! well i convinced my parents i wasnt talking to him , but we still are going out , i really think he is the guy , but this year my mom showed up in college without telling me and saw me sitting with him, she took him out and sayed aot of things to him such as , " stay away from my daughter , or i will get you down" i have alot of family here so we dont go out much now because we are scared we will get caught... i am studying in a different country from home so my parents come once awhile, because of this me and my bf fight alot, he is always scared now, but we cant leave eachother, my mom is coming again in a month and we are scared again she will find out. i cant date him because he is a lower cast then me ,i never take this cast system, i really love him and i know he does to but my parents think he is low for our family. what should we do?

#14 - life - 02/11/2012 - 05:13

question

i am going to meet my husband after a month so how shall i please him and what shall i do to make him go wild...

#13 - jyoti - 01/15/2012 - 06:56

:):):):):):):):):):):)

this is horrible! y'all shouldn't even think abt sex b4 marriage

#12 - beth - 01/04/2012 - 15:44

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